As I quickly learned, cleaning out your closet feels a lot like digging something up.
I had long-ago dropped the former-teacher narrative: not the story of my time as an early education teacher, but the tale of my quitting of the field — and quitting far too late, when the burnout had left indelible grit under my nails and a lingering cough in my throat. It had taken a few years, but eventually the radioactive dust from the fallout of quitting had dissipated and the air had cleared out again.
But something always lingered. The gnawing guilt, simultaneously over leaving and over not leaving soon enough — because I didn’t stick it out, and because I stuck it out when the best thing I could’ve done was leave. Like any wound that didn’t get a clean cut, it festered and reinfected and took years before it finally scarred over. Continue reading “Just Not-Bad Enough”
I have this little notebook — one of those impulse purchases from Marshall’s or TJMaxx, one of their cute & quirky notebooks the aisle over from the cute & quirky household goods — with the words Follow Your Bliss on the front. I can’t tell you exactly when I got it; only that it was sometime close to when I started getting comfortable teaching yoga, when I started teaching more specialty classes and workshops, and I wanted a notebook to devote to the cause.
The pages are already half-filled with notes. Little pink post-it flags delineate the different topics, and over time the stickies have folded in on themselves. Notes for potential workshops, revised notes for workshops I’m able to do multiple times — and redundant notes, for workshops that could never get off the ground. In between all this is a small smattering of poetry that I must’ve written when other notebooks weren’t around, poetry that just makes me sad when I stumble across them in the present day. Continue reading “Follow Your Bliss”
It was inspired by the influx of my childhood toys.
My childhood belongings. Their exodus a complex story in and of itself, one that — like many other portions of my narrative — will someday get its moment in the spotlight after enough emotional distance has been established. But, for now, we’ll skip to the end, with the final cargo of my past now delivered to our house, our guest room looking more like an adolescent’s bedroom mid-pack, and me bitterly musing to myself, “Fitting enough. The ghost of my upbringing has been the perennial guest as of late, anyway.”
But, again, that’s a story for another day. Like many stories of mine, when it’s time to be revealed, I will unapologetically give it the stage. Continue reading “Too Strong for The Role”